Use of audio as an agreed sensory or role element.
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Sound and audio play
Consensual use of voices, music, instructions, rhythm, repeated sounds, spatial audio or controlled quiet to shape attention, atmosphere, sensation or role.
Sensation & activity
In brief
Audio should enrich attention without damaging hearing or blocking consent communication.
Sound play can be as simple as a playlist or spoken narrative, or it can use headphones and audio cues to narrow attention. Its risks depend on loudness, duration, repetition, startle, equipment hygiene and whether sound masks communication or environmental warnings. Hearing protection and an independent stop channel are especially important when headphones, restraint or reduced vision are involved.
Recorded or live narrative content that may be enjoyed alone or with others.
Sound used to obscure other noises, which can also hide speech, alarms or distress.
An aversive use of sound carrying hearing, panic and coercion risks; consent does not make damaging volume acceptable.
Consent and content
Agree voices, words, themes, volume control, recording and whether headphones will be used. A prerecorded instruction has no authority beyond the listener's present choice.
Keep a visual, tactile or device-based stop channel available if sound could mask speech. Never assume silence means consent.
Hearing protection
Risk rises with sound level, duration and frequency of exposure. WHO safe-listening guidance recommends lower volume, exposure monitoring and breaks rather than relying on discomfort as a warning.
Stop after pain, muffled hearing, ringing or dizziness and seek audiology or clinical advice if symptoms persist. Sudden extremely loud sound can injure immediately.
Equipment and environment
Use clean, well-fitting headphones without excessive clamp or ear-canal pressure. Do not share in-ear devices without appropriate hygiene.
Audio must not conceal fire alarms, traffic, a door, water hazards or the supervising person's communication. Avoid cables that create entanglement around the neck.
Accessibility and privacy
Offer captions, transcripts, vibration or visual cues for Deaf and hard-of-hearing participants, while respecting that hearing access and sensory preferences vary.
Voice recordings can be identifiable personal data. Agree storage, sharing, deletion and remote-platform access before recording.
Non-graphic examples
What the umbrella may include
- Listening to low-volume adult audio fiction.
- Using a playlist with regular quiet breaks.
- Keeping a tactile stop signal while wearing headphones.
- Providing a transcript alongside spoken content.
- Stopping after new ringing in the ears.
Reviewed 30 August 2026
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