Community & culture glossary

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Community accountability
Collective, usually non-state processes intended to respond to harm, support affected people, establish responsibility and change individual or organisational conditions that enabled harm.
Dungeon
A community term for a space equipped or designated for BDSM activity, which may be a permanent venue, temporary event area or private room rather than a literal underground place.
Dungeon monitor
An event-appointed role that observes a designated play area, explains or enforces house rules and responds to visible concerns within the monitor's training and authority.
Edge play
A variable community label for activities perceived as unusually physically, psychologically, socially or legally risky within a particular person, group or setting.
House rules
Venue- or organiser-specific requirements governing entry, conduct, privacy, equipment, activities, substances, consent, reporting and removal from an event or space.
Munch
An informal social gathering associated with kink communities, usually held in an ordinary public venue and focused on conversation rather than organised play.
Newcomer frenzy
Informal community language for intense early enthusiasm that may lead someone to pursue many activities, relationships, purchases or commitments faster than their knowledge, support and judgement develop.
One true wayism
Informal criticism of the belief that one person's preferred kink structure, vocabulary, protocol or risk philosophy is the only authentic, mature or ethical model.
Play party
A private or organised adults-only event where consensual kink activity may occur under participant negotiation and venue-specific rules.
Power bottom
An informal, context-dependent label for a bottom who is notably active, directive, assertive or influential in shaping the pace and content of an interaction.
Risk profile and risk tolerance
A risk profile describes possible harms, causes, likelihood, severity, uncertainty and controls; risk tolerance describes the kind and level of residual risk a person is willing to accept.
Safeword failure
A breakdown in which an agreed stop or slow signal is not used, cannot be used, is not perceived, is misunderstood or is not acted upon promptly.
Service top
An informal label for a top who performs negotiated actions primarily to provide an experience shaped around the receiving participant's interests, without necessarily taking a dominant role.
Technical and interpersonal skill
Distinct but interacting abilities: technical skill concerns equipment, materials and physical execution; interpersonal skill concerns consent, communication, observation, adaptation, power and repair.