The UK Kink GuideEvidence-led glossarySpecific, voluntary and continuing agreement for a digital interaction, including what is created, recorded, stored, accessed, copied, analysed or shared, by whom and for what purpose.
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In brief
Digital consent is not a single permanent permission. Agreement to receive a message, join a video call or create an image does not automatically cover screenshots, cloud backups, facial recognition, AI processing or onward distribution. Platform settings support choices but do not replace communication or applicable law.
Useful agreements identify the content, participants, permitted actions, audience, retention period and what happens after withdrawal or a relationship ends. Silence, prior exchanges or a sexual conversation do not establish permission for a new act.
Consent can be withdrawn for future conduct. Withdrawal cannot guarantee recovery of every prior copy, which is why data minimisation and honest limits matter before creation.
Agreement to make a message, image, recording or other content under specified conditions.
Agreement about storage, duration, devices, backups and who may access the content.
Separate permission for a named audience, channel and purpose; creation alone does not imply it.
A technical account or app setting, which may not establish free and informed interpersonal consent.
Screen recording, screenshots, auto-downloads, cloud synchronisation, transcription and AI tools can create copies participants did not anticipate. State these functions before use and disable unnecessary collection where possible.
Disappearing-message design reduces visibility but cannot promise deletion: another device, backup, compromised account or camera may preserve content.
Pressure, threats, deception, dependency, intoxication or unequal authority can undermine freedom to agree. Verify adult status and identity proportionately, but do not treat verification as consent to sexual contact or content.
Accessible consent may use plain language, captions, alternative communication or extra processing time. A person should be able to pause or decline without losing unrelated support or access.
Intimate-image, harassment, communications, data-protection and fraud law may apply depending on the actors, conduct and UK jurisdiction. Personal consent and an organisation's lawful basis under data-protection law are related but not interchangeable concepts.
If content is misused, preserve safe contextual evidence, use platform reporting and seek specialist or police advice. Do not redistribute an intimate image while trying to expose the abuse.
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