The UK Kink GuideEvidence-led glossaryA consensual adult practice involving a wearable harness and an attachment, commonly used to describe anal penetration by a partner. The term describes an activity, not a person's gender, orientation or role.
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In brief
People use the word differently. Discuss what it means to each person, whether they want to explore it at all, and what boundaries and safer-sex measures are appropriate. No relationship status or past conversation creates consent.
The activity does not determine anyone's gender identity, sexual orientation, power role or interest in other practices. A fantasy, a joke or the purchase of a product is not permission to proceed.
Some people use the term more broadly. Ask what is being proposed and keep room for a no or a change of mind.
A wearable support whose fit, stitching, hardware, adjustment and release need checking.
A separate product with its own intended use, materials, dimensions, cleaning instructions and compatibility requirements.
A product explicitly intended by its maker for that use, with an appropriate external retention feature and clear care instructions.
Discuss boundaries, communication, stopping, privacy and any health concerns before choosing equipment. Check in throughout and stop if there is pain, bleeding, distress or difficulty removing a product.
Neither partner should feel obliged to take a particular role or prove openness. There is no need to escalate or continue when the answer changes.
Check manufacturer-intended use, materials, fit and instructions for both harness and attachment. If an attachment is for anal use, check its external retention design and the dedicated flared-base guide. Do not infer suitability from shape alone.
Follow NHS barrier and lubricant advice, change barriers and clean between people or body areas as appropriate, and follow maker instructions for cleaning and compatibility. Seek clinical help for injury or a retained product.
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